I made the expensive mistakes first.
I'm not technical. I don't have a college degree. I'm a mom who had ideas and no one to explain how any of this actually works.
I spent almost $8,000 and over 2,000 hours learning how to turn AI-generated screens into actual products. Vibe coding builds screens. It doesn't build a product.
I learned which tools are worth paying for, where AI gets you incredibly far, where it gets dangerous, what to set up on day one, and which mistakes cost hours or money to undo.
This is the system I wish somebody had handed me when I started. Every word of it was written for someone who doesn't already know what GitHub, a database or a deployment is.
Kassandra